What's asinine about it? Bands sign contracts, be they fair or not, record companies record their music, put it on whatever format and try to market the band's product and sell it. Band makes money, companies make money and the consumer should be happy with the product the he or she bought. If they're not, too bad. Buyer beware! I've bought plenty of albums without hearing a thing from them and regretted it. But hey, that's on me, not the record companies. You used to go to record stores and listen to samples from various albums and in some places that's still the case. And as I stated before, you can hear samples from just about any album at Amazon and I'm sure there are others that offer the same.
Didn't like the candy bar analogy huh? How about a new car then? Sure you get to test drive it but do you get to take it home for a week, a month, a year to see if you like it? No! What about a new stereo? Hear it at the store but try taking it home without paying for it. Do not pass Go and proceed directly to Jail.
What's really asinine, your word not mine, is the fact that people who download music without paying for it are stealing. And they are thieves. The asinine part comes in when they won't admit it and come up with various excuses to justify their stealing.