No, you aren't the only person that sees him as a dick. He is. Hell, he's a self proclaimed asshole, even has a solo album named Asshole.
However, he's FAR from a slobbering, ignorant rockstar as so many of them are and have been over the years. He's very intelligent, a smart businessman and a marketing genius... KISS isn't just a band, but hey are a BRAND.
In my opinion, the guy's biggest flaw is that he's extremely outspoken, but at the same time, I admire him for that. He doesn't kiss anyone's ass other than his family member's butts, who you can see that he totally dotes on his family. Anyway, as far as being outspoken on any number of subject from music to sex to politics and just about anything in between, he says it like he sees it and doesn't care if you or anyone else agrees with him.
I'm a HUGE fan of the band and I'll be the first to say that he comes off as an arrogant dink, but I appreciate his honesty in front of the media. I'd rather have a guy say that he saw shit and it stunk than to have some dingbat Hollywood weasel jump on up their soapbox and try and perfume the hell out of that pile of shit and try to see it to me as a pile of roses. I'd rather have him push his band and his brand in my face than be like some other rich asshole musicians who push their politics and social agendas in our faces every chance they get, telling me how to vote, how to live my life and who and what I should give my money to. **** them.
I'll cut off there before I go on a
real rant.
Anyway, to answer your question, no you aren't the only one that doesn't see him in a favorable light.