I know the feeling I am the same with Ted Nugent, I like his studio albums alright, but Double Live Gonzo is the first album of his I ever played so it's firmly planted it's banner as his best work in my library.
I have to smile when I asked Bucky and Thumper and MP about which Kiss albums to get they all recommended Alive I, II and III...I don't know if that covers them all but most bands I am content with their best live recording and that's it.