Mr. Bob Dobolina
Senior Member
Yoko may forgive him, but I won't.

Jet - I have limited knowledge of how the justice system works in The US, but, for sure, in the UK, for that type of murder of a 'non celebrity' the convicted party would be out in 20 years or less with good behaviour. I do wonder how it would have panned out had he murdered John in the UK. There would have been public pressure to keep him inside, but there would have been pressure from The European Union to release him. I agree with you, it makes you feel uncomfortable, in the sense that the family of the murdered 'non celebrity' have nobody pressurising the authorities to keep the convicted killer in prison.
It's not the forgiveness that bothers me. You are absolutely correct on that. It is the holier than thou way she says Paul should learn to like that scumbag. Who cares what he is now? Lennon will never have another day in this life and that is kind of a tragedy for all of us.
I seriously think this woman needs to be sectioned or whatever the equivalent is in the US.I am a Christian as well (by the way hat's off for admitting that in today's antitheistic society) and I completely get the forgiveness thing. It is very difficult and those who do so are better off for it. The point isn't the asshole you are forgiving (God will sort that out) but dropping the bitterness and getting on with your life. Again, the only thing that really irked me was her acting as if Paul needed to handle it the way she was. And the fact she was implying Chapman was a good guy. That's just hamming up the forgiveness angle.