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Thread Closed What Are You Listening To?
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electric funeral
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Coca Cola
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Re: Daily, Nightly and Ever So Rightly II *Chat Thread*
Maybe she wasn't really lying to you Comfy but perhaps she didn't want to hurt you by just saying "No, I don't want to date you".
It's always a tricky situation.
Maybe she wasn't really lying to you Comfy but perhaps she didn't want to hurt you by just saying "No, I don't want to date you".
It's always a tricky situation.
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Re: Daily, Nightly and Ever So Rightly II *Chat Thread*
I don't respect someone who can't be straight about that sort of thing and don't consider it tricky personally. I wouldn't associate with someone like that personally.
Maybe she wasn't really lying to you Comfy but perhaps she didn't want to hurt you by just saying "No, I don't want to date you".
I don't respect someone who can't be straight about that sort of thing and don't consider it tricky personally. I wouldn't associate with someone like that personally.
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Re: Daily, Nightly and Ever So Rightly II *Chat Thread*
There are plenty of other ways of saying that with a nice tone. I flat out said once before I hate any type of lie haha. Told her regardless of you thinking a white lie will not hurt someone if the truth ever comes on depending on the situation it could be even more consequential than the truth.
One night where some shit happened between us (few weeks after I asked her) led me to believe that she was being truthful in the I don't want that now bs, but left it open as a possibility. That happening literally a month before she dates this guy is a bit weird because she has only seen this dude 2 times in the last 2 times in the last 5 months. He is from her home town in Florida yet she is in NYC. Honestly I don't get that one. Especially when most of the time were out people believe we are together and what transpired that one night kinda led me on especially since it was weeks after I asked her out.
Her wanting to avoid bs instead created it and pissed me off.
The show we were supposed to go to is kinda of up in the air. I bought the tickets as a present before this whole thing and before I ever asked her out.
She couldnt afford hers yet she loves the bands playing so I didnt even say anything I bought them and then told her she was calling me nuts but was happy. Now she said the only way she is going is if she can pay for it I said thats stupid that it was a gift and that she should just take it and go. Said no wants to pay doesnt have the money wont go so I told her to ask her new boyfriend. Didnt go over well lol.
Yea I said something about it today. It really bothered me to the point of flat out saying I do not think we should bother hanging out anymore. She got all upset with it asking if we can just move on from her and start over. I said well she can if she would like to, but I would prefer to just not bother hanging out outside of going to shows with her. Turned into an argument she said I don't see why you cant hang out with me. I told her idk asking you out you giving me some bullshit reason and then contradicting that a month and half later is a good reason because obviously there is something there on my end when it comes to you. Then she got annoyed said I was coming off like all I wanted to do is use her which I countered by saying yea if that was the case I wouldnt have asked you out and when what happened happened I would not have bothered with you. She finally told me that the reason she is not dating me is because of my age. 3 years younger then her. I'm 24 and she is 27. She said she dated younger before. I said you have dated older before and clearly that has not worked out either. Age means nothing if the chemistry is there and if the person is mature enough to handle shit the right way with a cool head which I have down most of the time except when I have found out I am flat out lied to.
I cant respect that type of shit. Youre gonna led someone on but bullshit them earlier and then date some tool from your home town who has honestly done nothing for you and has not been there for ya. Seems shes just dating the idea of him not the reality of him. over 300 miles away over a 19 hour drive and a few hours on a plane. I give it a few months before it explodes. So does her best friend.
Worked today a bit today, but it was a strenuous 4 hours. Came home passed right out and now woke up. Kinda accidentally blew everyone off today doing so. Don't care though I was way too tired.
Maybe she wasn't really lying to you Comfy but perhaps she didn't want to hurt you by just saying "No, I don't want to date you".
There are plenty of other ways of saying that with a nice tone. I flat out said once before I hate any type of lie haha. Told her regardless of you thinking a white lie will not hurt someone if the truth ever comes on depending on the situation it could be even more consequential than the truth.
One night where some shit happened between us (few weeks after I asked her) led me to believe that she was being truthful in the I don't want that now bs, but left it open as a possibility. That happening literally a month before she dates this guy is a bit weird because she has only seen this dude 2 times in the last 2 times in the last 5 months. He is from her home town in Florida yet she is in NYC. Honestly I don't get that one. Especially when most of the time were out people believe we are together and what transpired that one night kinda led me on especially since it was weeks after I asked her out.
Her wanting to avoid bs instead created it and pissed me off.
The show we were supposed to go to is kinda of up in the air. I bought the tickets as a present before this whole thing and before I ever asked her out.
She couldnt afford hers yet she loves the bands playing so I didnt even say anything I bought them and then told her she was calling me nuts but was happy. Now she said the only way she is going is if she can pay for it I said thats stupid that it was a gift and that she should just take it and go. Said no wants to pay doesnt have the money wont go so I told her to ask her new boyfriend. Didnt go over well lol.
I don't respect someone who can't be straight about that sort of thing and don't consider it tricky personally. I wouldn't associate with someone like that personally.
Yea I said something about it today. It really bothered me to the point of flat out saying I do not think we should bother hanging out anymore. She got all upset with it asking if we can just move on from her and start over. I said well she can if she would like to, but I would prefer to just not bother hanging out outside of going to shows with her. Turned into an argument she said I don't see why you cant hang out with me. I told her idk asking you out you giving me some bullshit reason and then contradicting that a month and half later is a good reason because obviously there is something there on my end when it comes to you. Then she got annoyed said I was coming off like all I wanted to do is use her which I countered by saying yea if that was the case I wouldnt have asked you out and when what happened happened I would not have bothered with you. She finally told me that the reason she is not dating me is because of my age. 3 years younger then her. I'm 24 and she is 27. She said she dated younger before. I said you have dated older before and clearly that has not worked out either. Age means nothing if the chemistry is there and if the person is mature enough to handle shit the right way with a cool head which I have down most of the time except when I have found out I am flat out lied to.
I cant respect that type of shit. Youre gonna led someone on but bullshit them earlier and then date some tool from your home town who has honestly done nothing for you and has not been there for ya. Seems shes just dating the idea of him not the reality of him. over 300 miles away over a 19 hour drive and a few hours on a plane. I give it a few months before it explodes. So does her best friend.
Worked today a bit today, but it was a strenuous 4 hours. Came home passed right out and now woke up. Kinda accidentally blew everyone off today doing so. Don't care though I was way too tired.
Reading about Van Halen's Cafe Wha? gig - and listening to it as well:
Video: 'Panama' at Cafe Wha? | Rolling Stone
Video: 'Panama' at Cafe Wha? | Rolling Stone
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Re: What Are You Drinking Right Now?
water
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